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Featured Article: A Different Kind of Martyrdom - How I learned to stop talking and start listening. - Martyrs go straight to heaven. I first heard this when I was about five and, after quickly thinking it over, I decided to ask God to let me die as a witness to the truth. It seemed to me the surest, fastest way to be with Jesus forever. Trekking through the jungle, sharing the good news with a lost tribe, being quickly put to death-it couldn’t be all that bad, right? Read Full Story

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Empty Shell Marriages
Sociology textbooks define Empty Shell Marriages as: A marriage in name only, where a couple continues to live under the same roof but as separate individuals. Click for full story
Must See Sermon
In this Young Adult Service, the Rev. Dr. Howard-John Wesley, a Baptist minister from Alexandria, Virginia, challenges the young and young at heart to explore their trust in God by showing how God reveals himself. Click for full story
Sunday Prayer for Teens 2014-2015
Sunday Prayer for Teens provides a great way to support a teenager’s prayer life throughout the year in a cost-effective manner. Click for full story
Dying to Self
What does it look like to be crucified with Christ? What does it mean that “I no longer live?” How do I deny myself? Click for full story
Shining her Light: Proud Young Women, Black & Yes, Catholic!
In honor of Black Catholic History Month, 13 year old Vanessa was asked by her churches BCHM Committee to share with her Parish what it means to her to be Black and Catholic. Click for full story
Vocation, a Journey to Conversion
A reflection written by Fr. Davis when he was a deacon. He was ordained to the priesthood June 2013 in New York. Click link for full story
Online Resources for Teens: lifeteen.com
Check out the these resources for teens concerning alcohol, sex, living a pure life and more Click link for full story
Examination of Conscience
Every day we must examine our reflections and take account for the mark we have left on the world. Click link for full story
The Time has Come
On June 1, 2013, seven young men of the Josephite Fathers and Brothers religious community were ordained to the priesthood at the National Shrine of the Basilica of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, DC in what was both a festive and holy occasion. Click link for full story
The National Catholic Youth Conference (NCYC) 2013
From November 21st through November 23rd, the young Catholic church of the United States will gather in Indianapolis, Indiana to play, pray, and praise as only they know how at the National Catholic Youth Conference (NCYC). Click link for full story
The Road to Youth Ministry: Discerning God’s Call
Ministry discernment begins with a call received at baptism. This call comes from God to every baptized Christian. Some folks would like to think that God dialed the wrong number and couldn’t possibly be calling them. They are wrong. God calls all of us to mission and ministry. Click link for full story
Is Waiting Worth It?
The boundary for sex is marriage. God instructs us to wait to express our physical sexuality with another human being. He knows the power of it and knows that the best place for it to be expressed is inside of marriage. When sex happens inside of marriage it acts as a bond that keeps two people together, for life. Click link for full story
My Reflections on the National Black Catholic Congress XI
I have attended Congresses in the past as a youth. But now as a young adult, I believe I learned more from the experience. Perhaps now, as I am developing my own relationship with God, I was able to comprehend the various topics discussed in a deeper manner. Click link for full story
Reflections on Keeping Young Adults in the Catholic Church
I see the kids and teens in my own church and while they may not be on fire with their faith yet, I see that spark that will soon ignite and want so much for them to keep that spark ignited. I want them to join their church committees, be a true member. I want them to stay with their faith and profess to the world that yes we are black, we are Catholic and we are just as on fire with our faith as other Christians. Click link for full story
Words from YOUTH that attended the NBCC (National Black Catholic Congress)
Reflections from YOUTH that attended the NBCC (National Black Catholic Congress) with pictures. Click link for full story
The Princess Within: 3 Steps to Realizing Your True Identity
The attack on our feminine souls can be strong and relentless. The war on our identity can seem like a never-ending nightmare. Where can you turn to find relief? Where can you go to find the answers to who you really are? How can you begin to realize that you are beautiful and perfect, a true princess? Click link for full story
The Teen Brain: Still Under Construction
The more we learn, the better we may be able to understand the abilities and vulnerabilities of teens, and the significance of this stage for life-long mental health. Click link for full story

Growing and Understanding Truth By Timothy GreenThere are many roads to understanding truth, but first one has to realize the definition. Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6). One of the dilemmas of growing up is understanding truth compared to the youthful perception of truth (freedom).

Father John Corapi speaks of freedom in terms of liberty and truth. He states that there is a youthful perception of freedom that is doing what you want, or what "feels good". This is also called "license." License is doing what one wants to do simple because it "feels right." This is the pitfall that many youth and young adults fall into when they define "freedom." John 8:32, "Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." Freedom is found in the truth and not doing what "feels right" or "because I think this is right". When I define my truth with what "feels good for me" at the time, then I become my own God, or my own "truth". The "truth" is Jesus and understanding life not with what any individual may "feel", but living life by "every word that proceeds from the mouth of God" (Mathew 4:4).

This is the paradox of freedom, that one must surrender freedom to God to gain perfect freedom. One thing I love about our Catholic faith is it thrives when we embrace the wisdom of Christ. This is the rare freedom the Saints of the Catholic faith found and some only for a brief moment. This is the freedom that was embraced by Abraham when he was asked to sacrifice his son (Gen 22:1-12). It is the freedom that Moses found when God asked him to go and set His (God) people free (Exodus 3). This is also that freedom that Saint Mother Teresa of Calcutta found in caring for the poor. She found life in the places where others dared not go. So freedom is found within the confinements of the truth of God. How, can this be true? The world tells us that "we are only free" when we can live life according our instincts, no matter how bizarre those instincts maybe. It stresses that we, not God, determine what truth (lifestyle, relationship, and habit) is for us and God really does not care one way or the other. According to the world this has to be true because "I feel this to be right (true) in my heart (my being -or- it is the way I was born)." This also dictates that I do not have to obey Mathew 4:4, because of the "higher law" of my feelings.

We can only experience "truth" in God. We grow and understand life through our Catholic faith, and the times I have lived with God being my "truth" GREAT things have happened in my life. The times where I followed my "feelings", because something just "felt right", I have met disaster; disaster in the form of paying a high price of losing myself in the "because I want to" of the world. When this happens, I go to confession and I am placed back on track. The truth is this, "these things I (Jesus) have spoken to you so that My (Jesus) joy may be in you, and that your joy (your freedom, your understanding of truth) may be made full" (John 15:11).

I close with a word for our youth and young adults. God wants you to live a free, joyous, happy life. We must obey our Catholic faith. We do not lose anything by our obedience but gain more than what we can ever imagine. "And Jesus, replying, said to them, 'Have faith in God [constantly]. Truly I tell you, whoever says to this mountain (this bad relationship, this debt, this depression) Be lifted up and thrown into the sea! and does not doubt at all in his heart but believes that what he says will take place, it will be done for him' (Mark11:22-23)".

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