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 We can all probably recall
a moment in time when a colleague, friend, significant
other or family member reflected a behavior we just didn't
understand. We also may have tried to look deep into our
own souls for answers about ourselves. Are our behaviors
indicative of casual or recreational use of an activity
or substance? Or, have we crossed into the modern day
shackles and hand cuffs of abuse?
Taber's Cyclopedic Medical Dictionary
defines addiction "as a compulsive and maladaptive dependence on
a substance (e.g., alcohol, cocaine, opiates, or tobacco) or a
behavior (e.g. gambling). The dependence typically produces
adverse psychological, physical, economic, social, or legal
ramifications". Alcohol, drugs, and smoking are substance
addictions since they involve chemicals. Gambling is one of many
behavioral addictions.
The spiritual, emotional and overall
personal growth and development stagnates when there is an
underlying addiction. Relationships are significantly impacted
when a person is unable to control a craving or need for a substance
or particular behavior. Usually there is a closer relationship to
the substance or addictive activity instead of positive interaction
and development of a personal relationship. The primary relationship
is with the addiction. As the addiction becomes the first love, other
relationships deteriorate.
Functional addicts will continue to
exhibit the behavior necessary as if everything is normal for a
period of time and then submerge themselves in the depths of
their addiction. Throughout this time period the addict will be
uncaring, neglect their own health, abandon family and love ones,
increase debt, avoid paying bills, and ask for money. Future
ramifications and negative consequences will not matter. Sometimes
because of feeling guilty or shameful the addict will conceal
the use or activity.
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